Chinese New Year Eve

This is a really belated post. So, CNY was celebrated, like every year, in Kuala Lumpur, Subang, where my grandpies stays! Did you know Chinese New Year is called 农历新年 in simplified mandarin? Sheesh, I really ought to shoot myself for living 23 years in the dark. My granddad giving out red packets to the two imps! Traditionally, red packets are given out during the Chinese New Year’s celebrations, from married couples or the elderly to unmarried juniors. Red packets…

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Why do people like to gamble?

Personally I have no idea. But friends, loved ones and everybody around me love it. They thrive in the “activity” if I may so call it. So I went to Genting Highlands for what I thought was a break. Oh sweet heavens, how naive I was. My grandparents live in KL and from young, we frequently went up to Genting Highlands for a short weekend getaway. I remember being 5 – young and screaming wildly as my mom carried and…

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Who am I really?

Sometimes I am so fake, I disgust myself sometimes. I may smile at you, but that doesn’t mean I like you. I say okay I’ll be more than happy to do it, but I really just want to strangle you with the telephone cord. Too many a times, I have said “yes”, “sorry”, “you’re right”, “I’m wrong” and so on without really meaning it. And they come back to haunt me. I said them to please. The nature of my…

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Happy Valentine's Day 2008

It’s Valentine’s Day today How did you spend yours? Over the years, I have learnt that it’s best to avoid crowded areas and either I go home straight after work, or better still, stay at home the whole day, or do what I do most years – treat myself to a massage. A massage on V day’s good no? I will be confined to a four-walled room with a quiet massuer whose skilled fingers will gently nudge me to complete…

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Men ala Sushi Sets?

Today a friend of mine had tiff with her bf. No good, not good enough, useless – same shit. Why can’t he be this way? Why can’t he say sorry? I hate it when he …. and so on. But really,if he is like this, and can say sorry, and doesn’t do what she hates, then isn’t he perfect? But there is NO perfect men. Nope, sire there isn’t. I’ve learnt that it’s about learning his quirks, positives and negatives…

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