Who am I really?

Sometimes I am so fake, I disgust myself sometimes. I may smile at you, but that doesn’t mean I like you. I say okay I’ll be more than happy to do it, but I really just want to strangle you with the telephone cord. Too many a times, I have said “yes”, “sorry”, “you’re right”, “I’m wrong” and so on without really meaning it. And they come back to haunt me. I said them to please. The nature of my…

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Happy Valentine's Day 2008

It’s Valentine’s Day today How did you spend yours? Over the years, I have learnt that it’s best to avoid crowded areas and either I go home straight after work, or better still, stay at home the whole day, or do what I do most years – treat myself to a massage. A massage on V day’s good no? I will be confined to a four-walled room with a quiet massuer whose skilled fingers will gently nudge me to complete…

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Men ala Sushi Sets?

Today a friend of mine had tiff with her bf. No good, not good enough, useless – same shit. Why can’t he be this way? Why can’t he say sorry? I hate it when he …. and so on. But really,if he is like this, and can say sorry, and doesn’t do what she hates, then isn’t he perfect? But there is NO perfect men. Nope, sire there isn’t. I’ve learnt that it’s about learning his quirks, positives and negatives…

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