Why Women Look For Male Escorts

Men pay for sex. Women pay for companionship. It’s just the way we are wired (although there are definitely the minorities). Any woman who wants sex can just show up at any bar and get it for free. So why would we pay for sex (well, at least not enough to support an industry)? Unlike men, women crave for companionship. Having a partner who arouses you like that first date, stimulates you with meaningful conversation, is affectionate, and gives you all his…

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The Reacher & The Settler

Ladies and Gentlemen, in every relationship, there is a “Reacher” and a “Settler”. Let me explain what these terms mean. The Reacher: Some one who reaches beyond their looks and dates above their own looks The Settler: Some one who settles for some one less good looking than themselves One person reaches for someone out of their league, the other one settles for someone below theirs. To make this even clearer: “….the settler is never jealous of the reacher….The settler…

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I'm a little doubtful of love

A cheating husband here, a gambler husband there, broken marriages everywhere. I’m a little doubtful of love. Aileen and Samuel dated for 9 years and finally tied the knot last Saturday. I’m so happy for them. At the church wedding, her pastor quoted from the Bible: In a word, there are three things that last forever: Faith, hope, and love; But the greatest of them all is love. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 I think it takes a great amount of faith…

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Old Tears, You Need To Dry Up

Recently, the past came a-knocking at the door. And it made me sad again. I know, it’s silly of me to have emotions for the past. But the past did define me and make me who I am today. I have little or no regret for what happened in my past. Whether it’s relationships or things I’ve done, or decisions I’ve made. These old tears I have for what was and what could have been need to dry up. I…

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Fortune Telling in Singapore

When the future seems bleak, what do you do? Image credits to jlascar Yup. I did what I have never done before. I headed to the Guan Yin Temple along Waterloo Street and prayed for some sign. The guan yin temple said this about my fortune in 2011:“As long as I can remain calm in a dilemma, to my rescue comes a saviour I can trust. Don’t move with haste and recklessness. Matrimony succeeds and pregnancy leads to a birth…

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Why should I believe in marriage?

The divorce rates are so high now. We seem to be reduced to a 50-50 chance at happiness after marriage! So is Love an insanity curable by marriage?I wonder if this is the result of a developed country. A quick glance at the world divorce records show that the current marriages in developed countries are nothing but a one day renewable contract. Men never changed over the years (using never loosely here) but women now hold jobs and earn as…

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